Sleeping like an angel! :) 

Great Dim Sum

Yesterday was a great day for us. We brought Nellie, Alfie and Doris to Dim Sum at Crystal Dynasty restaurant. They loved it! It was their first time having the real chinese food. They tried "har kau"(shrimp dumpling), "siew mai"(pork dumpling), shrimp egg roll, fried shrim salad, fried turnip danish, ribs with black bean sauce, chee cheong fun with chinese pastry, chee cheung fun with fried tofu, bbq pork bun, beef with black bean sauce and bean curd and fruit cocktail for dessert.
They tried everything. :)
I am so glad that they really like the food.
After dim sum, they came over to the house for visit. We had the small cheesecake coated with chochalte. it was nice and full for everyone. heheheh eating non-stop eh.
They stayed for few hours and left around 2pm.
Nellie wasn't really happy as in she is still in the process of grieving of Albert's passed.

I was working yesterday too. I took extra hours just to earn extra bucks.
It was okie and normal.
My performance was evaluated yesterday without my knowledge. My surpervisor was listening to the calls that i take. I didn't realize it till she printed the report and handed it over to me.
Lucky that i didn't swear or anything ..heheheh
oh well, i never do that unless the customer is rude to me. NOrmally i will just come back and let it out over here..kekekek

My performance was okie..they graded me excelent with customers..hahahah. I am just lucky only to have customers that were nice yesterday. :) Is a blessing from HIM.

The next evaluation will be next month. Will see how i do ;)

Big Mama in the pool

Fuii yaaaaahhhh... this big mama was in the public pool with her swimsuit for the first time in her life... yup I went to join this Aquafit program yesterday with Lillian and Anita (my ex colleague).
It cost me $3.10 to join the program. Cool huh. It starts at 7.30pm and the exercise lasted for 45 minutes and we get to go into the hot tub with jaccuzi jets inside for half an hour.

Boyyy it was really good work out and i really felt it. My whole body ache so badly today... hehehe..what to do..first timer here maa..
I dunno how to swim but i was convinced by Lillian to join the program. It was good and I really love it!
Our instructor ,Mr Musaki.. he is funny and energectic.. and HOT too..hahahaah..too bad i am
married!!
I like all the movements .. all the kicks and jumps in the water..really tired u off.
I just wish i can do this everyday..but too bad..they only have it once a week.

Kit is soo nice to baby sit Ryan and let me enjoy myself. I really need it..something different and away from the baby for few hours ;)
I can't wait till next week to do it again ;)

Without daddy around

Ryan got up this morning looking for his daddy. Poor baby..hehehe... he was up around 7 am as usual..and calling "ba ba" and searching up and down for his daddy. He looked a little disappointed and i told him ba ba already went to work and will be back later around 5.30 pm.

Lucky that he did not show any tantrums ..phewwwwww...i thot he will not behave today but amzingly he took it okie. Rite now he is snoozing away :)

I didn't feel good either today coz it is not the same anymore. For the past week, i woke up and Kit was there and i asked him what he wants for breakfast. Today i have to have breakfast alone with Ryan. :(
Time really flies eh..i just wish we can have another week to enjoy..hehehe

I did lotsa cleaning today. I have cleaned the rangehood and stove. Boyyy, lotsa grease everywhere. I took Ryan out to the backyard for awhile. He was soo excited playing with the plastic empty pots and his prem.
As he was busy playing, i quickly sweep the driveway and took out some weeds.
Today is very hot and humid. Tomorrow will be even worst humid index will go up to 44 degrees celcious.
Hmm we have to on the air conditioner again. : ( there goes the bill!

Torpedos?

THe bullets
I am not sure whether those were torpedos bullets or just mainly guns bullets...hehehe
not really good at those stuff..
oh well, Kit was soo excited during the visit... :)

Haida-side view

Haida Battleship

Haida

The name of the Battleship - Haida

Another twin guns

We are standing in front of a place where they hold another twin guns. Bigger ones. Of course they took away the guns already. :)

The twin guns

Kit and Ryan is standing beside twin guns where the marines use to fire the enemy during the wars.
Pretty big and awesome :)

Battleship in Bayfront Park (Pier 4)

Haida Battleship.
We went to see the battleship on Saturday. The battleship we were on called Haida. She was used during WW 2 and as well as the Korea war.
It was awesome to see how the marines sleep and eat during the war time. ;)
The ship behind Kit and Ryan is a new ship. Just arrive last weekend to Hamilton from Halifax. We get to see it for free. That ship is only 25 years old. :) Pretty new and very high-tech inside.

bohoo holiday is over :(

Today will be the last day of our holiday together for this summer..it is soo sad. tomorrow Kit has to go back to work.

We really had a great time for the past week. Kit got the basement done a little bit and we managed to spend lotsa time together shopping and going to trails for our exercise..hehehe.. Yup our dieting activities been going on very well. Kit and I shed a few pounds.
and of course Ryan..he enjoyed the most..hehehe he really happy to sees his daddy every morning when he wakes up :)

Tonite we are going to have our first steamboat together in this house..hehehe...it's been a long time i had steamboat eh.. i think it was the nite b4 i gave birth to Ryan. ;)

I have just dyed my hair just now... to light brown colour ..heheh just to hide my grey hair. Yup i have grey hairs since i was 7 years old. Got it from my granny. Runs in the family i guess.. Her hair was all grey when she turns 40 years old. :)
Some ppl says that i think too much... well, not 100% true la..at least maybe some percentage lor :)

Tomorrow will be another boring day for me..back to my normal daily routine. :(

Kit is on 1 week vacation.

Wohoo! Kit is off this whole week. Saturday, i took off as well because my aunt from Toronto came for bbq. Everything went well and they love my bbq chicken wings and ribs :)
It was a full day for us but we really enjoyed ourselves very much.
Sunday we went to Scarborough (another city in Ontario), a china town, more of chinese population. We stock up our dvds (pirated ones of course..hehehe shhhhhhhhh...) we got 8 for 30 bucks. I chose some chinese movies and kit chose some english movies. It was a fun day too. After shopping around the chinese mall, we stop by at my aunt house in toronto. Her daughter bought an outfit for Ryan on Saturday but it was too small. So, she went to exchange it on Sunday and asked us to drop by after shopping at Pacific Mall.
We spent the whole afternoon and evening overthere. My aunt took us out for dinner, we had sushi. It was tasty! Yummie.. didn't have sushi for quite some time already! :)

Oh yeaaa, i got a Black and Decker oven toaster from Jaz and Aunt for my birthday! Yippie..very nice of them :)
They are the only family members i have overhere in Canada. They help us alot when we had hard times last time.
Bless them!

We didn't go out today coz Kit wanted to do some renovation work in our basement. So he spent the whole day working in the basement today. It was really hot today and i had slight headache and tummyache too (tummyache from "aunty visit")
We didn't really plan to go anywhere this week coz Kit has to finish the work in the basement before winter comes again..
So maybe tomorrow we will go shopping again..hehehe this time probably Mapleview mall or Ikea. Wanted to check out stuff in Ikea. :)
Ryan sure will be very happy tomorrow coz today he didn't get to go out at all. poor baby, he was so frustrated just now and showing tantrumms..
boyyyyyyy drives me nuts too. ;(
Luckily now he is asleep and i can enjoy my peace and freedom! ;)

This is what i cooked yesterday

Honey Lemon Lean Pork with Red Kidney Beans

Tadaaaaaaa... this is my invention. Nope i didn't get any recipes on the net coz Ryan was up as soon i finished blogging. So i didn't get any chance to surf the net for recipes.
I didn't not cook the prawn. I chose the lean pork instead.
At first i did not know what i was doing. I just took everything out from the fridge. Anything that i can find..heheheh
So i invented this dish. It was not too bad. Everyone loves it.
It has

Potatoes
Carrots
Button Mushroom
Red Kidney beans
Lean Pork
Ginger
Onion

Seasoning:
Dark soya sauce
Salt
Sugar
Honey
Lemon
Vegetable stock

I do not know how exactly the amount that i put. Everything was just according to taste. hehehehe
Not bad after all huh.. so everyone is satisfied. Ryan has his potatoes and Kit has his soup and a little bit of chinese cooking.As for me, not soo much of spicy food ..but nevermind la.. at least i got my juice last nite..hehehehe ;)

Today i just simply fried rice. Easy and fast. Furthermore i have to work from 5 till 9.30 pm and Kit is going to his parents place anyway. So no point for me to cook fancy food. :)

What to cook?

This is the question i asked myself everyday. I got problems cooking dinner everyday. First of all, I have 3 different taste buds here in the house. First, Kit has those china man taste bud..where he wants soups, vege, etc those chinese cooking. Second of all, my dear son Ryan, has western taste bud.. he wants potatos, bread, cheese, pasta etc .. and lastly myself, i want spicy food! hehehe

ai yo, headache, kepal pusing eh.. dunno what to cook. I struggle everyday cracking my head what to cook for dinner.
Today i took out prawns and some lean pork from the freezer. I still haven't decide how to cook it. But i already boiling the chinese yok choi tong (chinese tonic soup?) i also dunno what it suppose to call in english.
Ryan is good and bad in away.. he is bad because he doesn;t like rice at all. He prefer pasta or noodles. BUt he is good because he eats his vege.. :) any kind of vege u give him..he will eat it too. esp he loves those green leafy vege :)
So i have to make some potatoes to subsititute the rice for his carbo.

Kit never complains abt the food i cook, He just eat it eventhought it doesn;t taste good. All he will do is he just keep quiet..hehehehe if it is good..he will compliment me. Ahh isn't it nice huh?
BUt sometimes i felt guilty too..coz he work hard too..i just wanan do my part as a wife to cook him some good food that he is looking forward everyday when he comes home from work.
Of coz, i cannot cook fancy food on the days i got to work.
So, that is why i am struggling on the days that i am off from work.

Not to mention that i have already struggling what to cook for Ryan during lunch. hehhehe
n myself, i am in the process of dieting too.. try not to eat oily food and eat more vege and fruits.
That is why we bought the juicer.

AI yai yai... i hope i can find some recipe on the net after this..heheheh..

Today's Lunch

My lunch

1 apple
1 tomato
2 stalks of celery
4 carrots

This is what i have for lunch today. So refreshing and filling eh. One big glass of juice to drink to cool me off from the heat and help my stomach stay filled.
Tasted good too.

Shopping day!

Yeah! I am very excited about today because is my off day. Don't have to worrie abt rushing the house chores and going to work.
We planned to bring Nellie , Doris & Alfie (Nellie's sis in law and bro) to Crystal Dynasty in downtown for dim sum. Supposed to meet them at Nellie's place around 11 am. Unfortunately, I got a called from Nellie around 8.45 am this morning saying that Alfie having problem to chew his food as in his mouth is sore. Poor man, so i told Nellie maybe next time, after he fully recover first if not he couldn't enjoy those food. They never have dim sum before.
Alfie and Doris, they are 2 beautiful people... as nice as Nellie! Doris just bought lotsa toys , chairs and table , tri-cycle and bicycle for Ryan. Yea she is soo nice and thoughtful! Bless her!

As the lunch has cancelled, we thought of going shopping! hehehehe.. long time we didn't shop. Furthermore, Zellers has good summer sale this weekend. All men and women's clothings are 50% off.
Kit bought 2 pair of pants and i got myslef 2 pairs of pants and a blouse as well :) hehehehe
I get to buy one extra pair because of my birthday is coming up..hehehehe
I got one pair of jean for 15 bucks, and dress pant for 15 bucks as well. Coolies!
and the blouse cost a little bit more, 20 bucks.
KIt got his pants for 15 bucks too. Cool DEAL!
Never felt this satisfied before. heheheheh
We had a great time shopping.

Ryan of coz had fun at the toy aisle. He behaved himself overthere. He didn't really touch a lot stuff.. and he only touch the one he wants. heheheh but too bad..the one he touch cost alot! Daddy couldn't afford.
Talking abt high and expensive taste here huh? ;)

It was pouring rain when we left Zellers. We have to go to Asian store for our grocery shopping. Got ourselves some chinese pastries (buns with filling inside) and got some chicken wings for this coming Saturday's BBQ.
Yea this time i am having my aunt from Toront coming over for bbq. :)

We had those buns for lunch and we had New York Style Pepperoni Pizza for dinner. hehehe no need to cook again. how lovely! :)
I got that pizza for free coz i got coupon from work. :)

Just another relax and wonderful Sunday for us. :)

couldn't sleep

Is almost 1 am now and I am still awake. Dunno why, maybe because my back is giving me problems.
Yesterday i had pretty bad backache in the middle of the nite and i ended up sleeping on the floor.
Hmm dunno why.
Besides that, Kit is snoring too loud and i couldn't concentrate my sleep..hehehe..so i thought maybe i go blog la..

Yesterday i had pretty long shift compared to the one i usual had. I worked from 5 till 9.30 pm. Boyyy, my ear is pretty sore with those ear phone thing on for hours.
I had one customer ordered 21 large pizza for pick up and cost her abt 217.17 ..whoohooo..that is alot man..there must be a party or something. At first i thought she was kidding only..but she sounded very serious.
Oh well, some ppl can just spend money like that..i cannot afford. It depends, if we are having party, we will probably have something else ... not just peperoni pizzaa.
hehehe
:)

Later on i will have another long shift too..oh boyyyyy gonna be a long day for me. ..with all the grocery shopping, banking, etc and work starts at 4.30pm.
Pretty busy busy day i can foresee it.
Luckily i get sunday off :)

I hope i will have pleasant customers later.

power juicer

We just got our Jack Lalane's Power Juicer which we ordered from TV on Saturday morning.
This juicer is superb cool coz it really gives lotsa juice and the pulp really dried out unlike from the normal juicer.

It cost Kit 252 bucks for that thing. Ya.. what to do, need to stay healthy nowadays, coz we really have serious problems with our health. We just got it yesterday. Darn postman delivered it early in the morning yesterday abt 7.30 pm. I was nicely snoozing away when i heard the door bell rang. It was the side door bell (we have 2 doors-the main door and the side door, and our mail box is at the side door, and we have 2 types of door bell-side door bell ring once *dong* and main door bell ring twice *ding dong*) i was still half way asleep and half awake. Then the door bell rang again, i looked at the clock, mannnn is just 7.30 am.. i was thinking who the heck is it.
I was still reluctant to get up and get the door...i thought maybe somebody is trying to play the door bell or something.
The next thing i heard a real hard knocking on my side door. Ohh oo..i thought who is it... so i got up and try to get change coz i was on my spaggethi strap tank top (hot leh), dun want ppl see me on that with my messy hair..
the moment i finished changing, went to open the door, i guess the person left. Nobody was there, i opened my mailbox therei s this card from post office saying that i have a parcel.
Then i was big relief.. it was just the postman...maan they are early!

So i was going to look for the location for us to go pick up the parcel. It says there the parcel was left at our back porch.
Wahhhhhhh... like that also can ar..mannnn what if we are not at home huh ....so i went to our back porch.. saw this huge box ..n i tried to carried inside.. MAnnnnnnnnnn it was soo heavy!
it weighs 6.5kg..
Lucky i managed to carried it in.
I knew it was the juicer.. :)

I didn't try the juicer till Kit got back. We had carrot and celery juice. Yummie!
TOnite we try different juice.
We can juice abt anything.. the schute is big enough for us to put the whole apple inside without cutting them into pieces first.
Ain't that cool?!
hehehe..
Felt like trying tomatoes, carrot, celery and brocoli.
hehehe..yea they came with 2 recipe book.. all sorts of juice u can make.

Oh yea..boost it up baby!

Patch up!

This is the follow up situation when Kit got back and found out that i was mad and blasting the computer room..hehehehe

Oh well, he was trying to explain but i was too upset to listen to him. I didn't really talk to him. I was too upset to even use my brain to argue with him.
I know he is torn in between 2 but heyyy, he is a grown up man and he has a brain to set his priority.
He can tell them that i have already cooked and will go back and eat. ...buttttttt... he didn't. and the worst part is..this is not the first time his parents did this to me.
Everytime called the last minute and asked us to go there for dinner. Never care abt ppl's feelings and respect ppl's privacy, freedom and plans.
THey always never have the decency to call ahead and tell u what they want. And what makes me even more upset is, Kit never have the guts to say no and always "fly" over there when his parents call.

ANyway, i didn't talked to him till Sunday morning. He woke up and try to patch things up. But i didn't bother him and let him handle Ryan all morning.
He didn't even say sorry or anything. THat even makes me more frustrated coz that means i dun have the right to get angry and my anger towards him is totally wrong.

He came to me and explain the whole thing to me..how things happen yadaaaa yadaaaaa yadaaa..
i couldn't be bothered what the actual story is anymoreee.
That time Ryan felt soo bored and he wanted to go out soo much. Sooo, we stroll Ryan to Gage park..it was sunny and hot day. I was walking in front and he was strolling Ryan at the back. We didn't utter a word during the walk to the park.
I put Ryan on the swing and let him enjoy his swing for awhile. Kit was sitting down on the ground day dreaming away.

Lately, we just grew further away from each other...we really need a big break.. u know..no baby, enjoy ourselves, go dating n such.
We didn't do things together for such a long time already ever since Ryan is born.
U see, i do not wish to let my MIL to baby sit RYan for me and go out with Kit. I just couldn't do it. I dunno why ..i dun feel comfy and i dun feel alright at all.
All these while i am just holding my guard proctecting Ryan and myself from MIL and without realizing that i am ruining my relationship with Kit.
Hmmmmm i just dunno how to let go and go on with a normal life....

As we were walking back home from the park... I started to talk to kit as in what happen to us. WHat he wants from me... u know i am trying to help the relationship and mend things back.
He told me he needed break.. a big time break.
I knew what he wants when he mention break. (Ryan always stick to his daddy when daddy is around..so that makes kit very tired)
I know he wanted me to let his mom to baby sit Ryan and we go out on a date or do things together without any interruption from RYan.

So i was soo reluctantly said..okiee..since i am off today, why not bring Ryan to ur mom's place and we go for a movie later.
Deep inside my heart i was ssoo hardhearted to do that...but i got no choice.
Kit really needs a break from everything he is doing rite now.
Me too i guess..

SO guess what, we went to watch Mr. and Mrs Smith at 3.10 pm. It was good movie.
We drop Ryan at MIL's place around 2pm and off we go.
THe movie ended aroundd 5.30 pm and Kit drove us back home first. He suggested that we should have some time to ourselves alone at home b4 picking up Ryan. heheheh notty him
we had bubble bath together and some intimate time together ...hehehe ;)

I was like happy and relief that we had time together. The best time ever since RYAN!
but at the same time..i was always worried abt RYan all the time.
Silly me huh!

piss off!!!

Boyyyyyyy i am damn piss offf rite now! I just got back from work and found out hubby and Ryan is overthere at MIL's place.
I really hated that when Kit did that..is not i dun like him going there..is just that he bring RYan there without letting me know!
He didn't really respect me at all.
Why can't he tell me in the first place when he wanted to go visit his parents!
OOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooohhhhhh..geramnya! felt like wannna strangle him eh!

when i got back..found the house is empty and found the note on the fridge saying that he and ryan is overthere.
Arghhhhh!
I still have issue with my MIL.
Seriously, lately she is up to something..always wanna get close to Ryan...I really hate that!
I know i should not feel that..
but too bad..i couldn't help it.. I just hate her soo very much! for what she has done to me!
I can't let goo...

Rite now i dunno what to do..i have to blog abt my feelings rite now..with my speaker on blasting my computer room!

N guess what? they are having dinner nicely there...fuck! i have already cooked and kit just wanna eat there.
what's the point of me cooking at all. furtheremore i have to go to work ..i sacrificed my time just now...tried to cook dinner b4 i go to work.
N WTF! he is nicely having dinner there!
WHY? because stupid mom asked to!
MAMA's boy always will be MAMA's boy..can't he just said that i have cooked and come back and eat la..
damn it!
now what am i going to do with the leftovers.?
damn it
i am just tooo pissed off rite now~

Happy Canada Day

Happy 40th Birthday to Canada. Yup, Canada turned 40 last Friday. Our long weekend was very nice and tired.
Thursday nite we went over to Kit's parent's place for dinner. We bought some pizza overthere coz Mil didn't know that we wanted to go there. It wasn't a planned one though, coz Fil called on wednesday nite and left a message to call back, which we did but he didn't put his phone back properly so we couldn't get through. So, Kit decided to visit his parents on thursday evening. That's why we ended up having dinner overthere. I didn't get off work till 9 pm that nite, so it was latee long nite for me. I had my dinner around 10 pm. More like supper huh..hehehehe

Anyway, Friday was a great one. We spend early morning outside our backyard watering the platns and clean up here and there. We decided to stroll Ryan to Gage park (10 mins walk from our place) a nice park where they have yearly celebration on Canada Day. They have concert, amusement rides, craft works, and lotsa multi cultural food stalls as well.
We just went there for a walk and Ryan as usual enjoyed his swing very much.

Kit's younger bro came to Hamilton around 2 plus afternoon that day. He stayed over the weekend at my Mil's place.
Saturday was an okay day for us...but extremely tired. Fil has to work that day and nobody driving mil to grocery..so she has to tag along with us to do some groceries shopping.
Oh my gosh..we went over 5 places to do our grocerries shopping. OH boy i was soo dead tired and by the time we got back , i only left an hour to rest and get ready for work. Is always hectic for me on weekends..but Thank God, nowadays i got Sunday off..hehehe..i dun have to be so stress out.

On Sunday morning around 2 am, KIt got a phone call from his younger bro saying that Fil got stomach ache ..gotta go hospital. oh boy..so he rushed overthere to fetch him to hospital..Kit didn't got back till 6 am. Poor guy, he looked tired and worried. Fil got kidney stone and has to wait for scanning . Kit got back first and wait for his bro to call and pick them back. Kit's bro didn't call till 2 pm, boyyyy...it was like almost 12 hours eh...
THank God nothing serious... doc said the stone is almost coming out ..all he has to do is do lotsa big business (bo bo)
hmmm..
poor old man look tired and exhausted..he must in real pain eh.

With all this emergency thing happened, Kit's sis didn't even bothered to come over to Hamilton to visit her dad.
All she did was call and ask how are things. At first she said she will go visit on sunday evening, but in the end, kit found out that she won't come till monday. She is the type of a person that is scared of troubles.
For her to drive from Mississauga to Hamilton is troublesome. Esp is on sunday somemore.
If she come on monday...it will be more convenient for her because she works in Burlington, is like 15 mins drive compared to 45 mins drive from Mississauga to Hamilton.
N guess what? She is on holiday nowww..to Montrrreal already..hahahhah..what a good one huh?
Hmm i really dun understand why she behave like this. She is turning like a self centred person..behaving like her hubby,.
Poor old man, i think he was upset too eh...coz he loved his daughter very much..n she is the favourite one eh..
Isn't very ironic??

Oh well, i dun care that much..is her problem.
All we have to do is to do our part only.

That is one good smile ;) 

Look at me..i am flying ;) 

Look who is in action? Ahem! heheh..Ryan is enjoying his swing with coolie sun glass  

Hot again

Yup, we are hit with the heat wave again. Its been humid and hot last couple days. It was 37-38 degrees for last couple days.
Not only that, the air is not clean as well. Air was smoggy and there was no breeze at all.
Ryan and i were stuck inside the house coz i dun wanna bring Ryan out due to the bad air situation. His lung is not as strong as we adult.

However, i let him out when the sun set down...brought him out the yard and enjoy his running around.
I enjoyed myself too by just watering the flowers and pulling the weed. Is not good to trap inside the house all the time.
Kit didn't feel good these days...dunno why..he felt tired all the time and always to be alone...maybe his "uncle visit" heheheh
He is like that whenever he is tired.
He will be okie when weekend comes.
THis week, we gonna have long weekend..coz this Friday is Canada Day.
SO i guess he can't wait till that day...but i have to work on that day..coz i will get one and half pay that day..yippie..

oppsie...Ryan is up now... gotta go now.. have a great weekend all!

Praise the Lord

Praise the Lord! My bro is getting much better now. Last couple days he managed to bobo (make big business) and doc said he has to get out all the remaining wastes inside his colon b4 he can start back his liquidify solid food.
I called him just now to talk to him, he sounded weak but he is okie. He told me he wanted to eat Char Koey Teow..hahahah he is soo "tum chiek" one unbelievable!

I am soo much relief that he is okie now..THanks for the prayers.. :)

He is just too excited and making this funny move..hehehe.. 

Another one with the leaves. He is just too curious. 

Ryan is having fun with the greens ;) at the botanical garden in Niagara Falls 

Ryan's first time at Niagara Falls.  

Koko is sick

My bro is sick and has been admitted to hospital twice already. He is having problem with his colon...hmm dunno how to explain it overhere. His colon got problem thatmakes him hard to go "bo bo" (make big business)
rite now he cannot eat..doc just put him tube and antibiotic to clear all the wastes inside his colon thing.

Is a funny thing, my bro and me didn't really talk alot..i mean not because we have problem in communication. Is just that we didn't get to see each other to talk. He is always busy working. He is a workacholic and he works 24 hours a day. He even sleep in his office.
However, when we get to see each other.. we can talk non-stop. Thank God for the bonding and good relationship we had for each other. Not only my bro, my sister too. We all had the good bonding for each other.

Yesterday i found out that my bro got admitted the second time, i got soo worried. Wanted to call home to find out the details..but it was too late due to the difference timing. It was afternoon my time when i found out the news by reading my sis's blog.

I was so worried and i couldn't concentrate a single thing while i was at my in law's place. My mind was just focusing to go back home and call my dad to find out the details

As soon as i got the chance to talk to my dad, my tears rolling down from my eyes... i just broke down and cried.
I dunno why.. i just felt like i miss my bro alot and i haven't spend enough time with him.
i was soo afraid something serious might happen to him.
Dad calm me down by telling me he is okie..the doc is doing his best to get the waste out. Asking me to pray for bro, which i did..i pray day and night for his safety and recovery.

I got to emotional because the whole thing reminded me abt my whole mom incident hting.
It is just too much for me to go through again.

Oh Father in heavan, please cleanse my bro with the Blood of JEsus and heal him and kept him safe and healthy!
Thank you Father and Blessed be to u oh FATHER In heavan.
AMEN!

Sunday off :)

Yippie yeh! I am off today from work. Yea i have asked to get off every Sunday, so that i can spend time with Kit and Ryan.
Today i slept till 8.30 am..hehehe.... thanks to Kit, hubby pampered me. Ryan was up around 6 plus this morning and he took care of Ryan. He even brought Ryan out the yard and left me alone to enjoy my beauty sleep.

Then i get to enjoyed my CHARMED movie series everyday starts at 9am. Pretty nice day for us today. We just got back from Ikea and Sears. We went Ikea shopping coz they have the 50% sale event.
We managed to get some curtains rod for half price. Got one for $3.99 and another longer one for $4.99. We enjoyed the shopping and had some frozen yogurt too..yummie!
Then we headed to Sears in Mapleview mall in Burlington.., at first we thought we just want to enjoy the air conditioner only but when we went into Sears...i saw superb sales on the shoes. I got one Neveda shoe for 16 bucks after taxes..the original price was 40 bucks.
cool huh? ;)
Kit got one pair too...for abt 26 bucks after taxes..original price was 60 bucks.
We really shoped today with the humidity weather rising to 38 degrees .
So shiok man..when u spends money..hehehehehe

Rite now Kit went to buy a case of beer for his dad coz later we have to go over for dinner. Kit's dad loves beers plus the weather is so hot nowadays...will be good one for him

I just love the thought of not going to work..hehehe..can relax and not to worrie abt the time at all. :)

These were the dishes i cooked yesterday nite. Vegetarian spring rolls, fried vege, fried curry fish and steamed chinese sausage. Dunno what to cook..but ended up cooking 4 dishes..hehehe Kit was happy camper last nite when he saw the spring rolls.  

Look so curious there.. ;) 

Kit is having fun mowing the lawn 

That's Ryan enjoying himself being outside the yard. :) 

Flowers that grows on my garage.. :) pretty good huh ;) 

Some flowers that i dunno what it calls.. it comes out every year. :) pretty nice huh 

Yellow and Orange roses. Behind the rose are Lavender that hasn't bloom yet...but smells good. :) 

Some of the summer flower that has already bloom in my garden. I dunno what it calls. Planted by previous owner. :) 

Father's Day

Is the day...Father's day weekend. I didn't get anything for Kit, well, i did treat him Fortino's Chicken, which is his fav and Ryan's too.
Well, on Saturday we went shopping like crazy and we bought lotsa things. Kit went to CND tire to buy pressure washer. It was on sale for half price. Good deal eh..so we can use it to wash our deck, slidings, porch and driveway too.
He woke up early to get the pressure washer coz it was too good deal, scared later it will be gone fast. Coz it says no rain checks and while quantity last. So, our dear fren woke up around 7.30 am and headed to CND tire around 8am.
He came back around 8.30 am and woke me up from my beauty sleep. I was soo tired and sleepy but i have to drag my lazy bump out from the bed coz i wanna watch "CHARMED" at 9 am. Yea..my fav series movie now...hehehe cannot miss it one eh..;)

I finished watching around 10 am.. then we started to get ready for grocerries shopping . I bought Ryan a toy. Is from Fisher Price the little people. Cost me aroudn 30 bucks..it was on sale half price..original was 60 bucks eh..so good deal for me :)

Bought a cake for Kit's dad coz we had to go over to Kit's sis's place for dinner. Coz she had this early father's day celebration thing for the old man.
She orderd 1 chinese bbq piglet..cost her abt 130 bucks..hmmm but didn't taste good at all eh..too oily and she bbq some quails too..hmmm too much meat.
Just too much meat for me.. high cholesterol eh.

anyway, we didn't reach there till 9.45 pm. coz i finished work around 9 pm. hehehe..dun feel like taking off days ler..no point ler...
Well, it;s been awhile we haven't visited her place. Well, i can say her decoration of the house is a bit too off from style.
Maybe is her own liking not mine. Not fair for me to comment lor.

Can't sleep in new environment eh..that is why i am still writing this blog now at abt 1.25 am sunday morning.
Kit and Ryan already snoring away liao..n me..still facing computer ..hehehe
We have to sleep in her study room..soo..lucky thing there is a computer..if not i dunno what to do..

Hmmm... actually, when i reached kit's sis place, saw my FIL and i did acknowledge him just now..but he wasn't too happy to see me i guess... he didn't say much..just gave me those unhappy look.
Hmmmm.. i really dun understand.. what have i done wrong?
Sigh..

oohh who caresssss.. their business... not mine!
as long as my family are happy together.. the rest... i dun care!
:)

Heat Wave

Its has been 9 days that we had these 30 over degrees weather couple with high humidity and smoggy air.
BOyyy, prety hard to survive through this kind of weather after u have experienced the 6 months wicked cold winter. Not to mention, my hometown from Penang, is a norm to have humid 36 degrees weather there.
Oh well, i have forgotten such weather already till last few days ..geeze i was screaming for help..hehehe...u can't do anything. Thank God for the air conditioner..kekeke.. Summer is not here yet but we are already having the typical July weather in June.

Luckily, the humid weather is gone. Is back to normal spring weather today. Back to normal 20-25 degrees tempreture with cold breeze air.
Other than weather, i am doing pretty good... Sunday my FIL treated us Dim Sum for lunch at Crystal Dynasty restaurant. We had our wedding lunch over there too. Only decent chinese restaurant over in HAmilton..hehehe pai seh..
The last time Kit and I went there for dim sum, it tasted horrible. But this time it was good. We were impressed this time..hehehe...
After dim sum, we headed to Bayfront Park for a walk. It was nice even though it was humid.
We got back around 2 pm, and i headed to Nellie's place to keep her company. I stayed till 4 pm coz i have to work at 4.30 pm.
It was longggg day for me on Sunday. I promised Nellie i will visit her on Monday again.
So on Monday I cooked her some Chinese fried rice so that she dun have to cook dinner.
Stroll Ryan overthere and spend few mins there only coz she looked tired and i thought i better let her rest and lie down.
She couldn't sleep for days already. Can't blame her.
Sigh... hope she gets better soon.

On Tuesday i didn't go visit her..coz i thought i'll let her rest and be alone for awhile.
I will visit her on weekends.

I felt soo weird after the whole thing. Dunno why, maybe they are close to me i guess. I felt i had lost someone dear to me too.

Oh well, since i didn't visit Nellie yesterday, i had the whole day at home..so i ended cooking Penang Kapitan Curry. kekkkee...yeaaaa tasted good too eh.. somemore extra spicy one..walauuu eh..its been awhile didn't eat curry.
Kit had it till he has to drink his Motts garden veggie drink with ice.
hahaha can see him sweat and running nose too..
of coz i cook somethign else for ryan too..i steamed some fish for him...but that little rascal.. didn't wanna eat his fish..wanna try the curry chicken.hahahaha..
after he had his first bite...boyyyyy u can see his face change...he knew is spicy..but he still continue eating..walauuuuuu eh..
eventhough born in canada.... but has to bow down his malaysian parentage roots huh..esp mom from PENANG..hahahahahah
yea..what to do..if no train him now..if next time go back to penang, he will miss out the goodies of food!
hahahahha

Albert's Funeral.

I couldn't sleep tonite, so thought of updating my blog. I dunno why i couldn't sleep, i should be dead tired by now, butttt, i seems to be very wide awake.

I have attended Albert's funeral tonite. It was my first time for me to attend western's funeral. I was a little bit nervous abt the culture and customs there. All i know they are Catholic, but of coz they are certain rules and regulations too. Similar to our asian's style.

For me, I have gone through 3 funerals of my loved ones. I was kinda immuned to the situation already. The first one was my mom's one. Of coz we did it in a Christian way, so there was no "hoo haa" ..."tok chiang" (chinese drums and stuff making lotsa noices) like the one the Taoist ppl. No offense, i am just trying to differenciate only.
The second was my grandpa's. He died peacefully while he was having dinner. What we did was having the Siamese Monk came over for prayers. That's was it.
Then 3rd one was my grandma's . We did the same as the one for grandpa.

So, came 4th one.. Albert's one.. eventhough he was not my family member, but i treated him as my closed one.
I am very upset and down for the last couple days.
While i was at the funeral home just now, I saw Albert in his coffin, lying down peacefully, with his eyes shut and with a peaceful smile on his face.
Bless his soul for eternal life.
He was a very good man,husband ,father and grandpa.

I just felt bad for Nellie..they were couple for 55 years!
I just couldn't imagine how Nellie is feeling rite noww... if i ever loose Kit, I really dunno what to do or i will feel.

In Living Memory of Albert.

Albert, was a very unique man, a man that i came to know in Dec 2002. Was very straight forward person and kinda feisty too. hehehe..
Albert was Nellie loveable husband. Yup, he has passed last nite after several years fighting to survive from this deadly disease called cancer.

I felt bad, loss, sad and worried. All mixed feelings for me today. I found out the news from my MIL, which she called this morning to tell me abt Albert.
I didn't talk much to Albert before, but deep inside me, I knew he was a very nice, fine and loving man. He was never show his feelings to anyone b4 but deep inside him, he cared very much.

I dunno why i blog abt him today, is just that i felt like it. Something for me to mourn over.

May his soul rest in peace and may GOD keep Nellie and her family strong and help her through her grieving process.

In Living Memore of Albert. 

Humid! Humid!

oooooooh boyyyyyyy, i haven't had this humidity for almost 2 years plus already..hehehe..yeaaaa...yup summer is finally here! Well, pretty much reminded me of Penang's weather..hehehe
Is nicee but dun really like the humidity though, coz making me sweat like a pig and that headache is killing me! That explains why i didn't blog for quite some time.
Geeze all i need is a pool...just felt like jumping into a pool of coolll water! hahaha..
splash Splish..hehehe

Oh well, what happened last week was we had bbq on Saturday, and Kit invited his family members over. Initially, we planned to invite only kit's younger bro and his parents only..but when Kit told his dad abt the bbq thing...his dad asked him to invite his sis and her hubby as well.
Oooooh oooooooo..problemooooo...coz his sis and hubby are really 2 fake people.. very self centred and never bother us as family.
Siighhhhhhh.. no choice... got to invite them.
Well, the whole thing was okie... i didn't take off days coz it was too late..my schedule was up and i couldn't take any off days.
Too bad! good in a way..coz i dun have entertain them that much.
We planned to have it at 2 pm.. but guess what..kit's parents and sisn hubby were late..they came aorund 4 pm.
we didn't care..we hadthe bbq started first, coz we were hungry... Kit's younger bro was here in the morning...he was okie..actually he is a very nice guy, understanding guy too.
I like him.. he is the only person i like from Kit's family.
He understands my situation and very nice guy!
He treated me like his sister in law... not like the others..walaueh...

nothing much happened though..they came and look around the house..n of coz complained abt our house..here n there..
too badddd la... is our house.. i couldn't be bothered!
they have nice, new and big house...how can u compared to ours...ours is old house..of coz theirs is nicer..
who caresssssss!

luckily i gotta work at 5.30 pm..
hehehe..so i just entertain forawhile..n they left around 8 pm..
Kit's younger bro stayed till i got back home eh.. n guess wat..RYan loves him... he allow kit's younger bro to carry him and play with him..
not like kit's sis..Ryan doesn't like her..hahahah guess Ryan can sense it huh kekekekek
Kit's bro help me and kit alot...least he baby sat Ryan while Kit cleaned up after they gang left..kekekekke
It turned out okie..but of coz my FIL didn't feel good abt our house. He didn't even come into the house.
oh well, is his problem ler...

okie dokie...wanna keep this short..is very hot now..wanna have some ice cold water.

won't be updating for couple days...everyone have a great week.