Wednesday, June 20, 2007

No go back

PIL decided not to go back.... coz they cannot rush back on time for the funeral..so no point for them to go back..
MIL felt very down ....n she told me that she couldn't concentrate working yesterday at all.
I gave her a hug yesterday when FIL and Kit were upstairs. She was touched i guess..and appreciate it..(finally)
I told her that i understand how she feels now... n comfort her...telling her Grandma is old and is time for her to rest in peace..U did ur part as a daughter and she will understand that u couldn't go back.

I washed all her working stuff yesterday and prepared everything that FIL has to bring today for work. Today she is off. I let her to be alone and sink in everything.
I even cook lunch for her..but too bad she is having vegetarian food today.

SIL is on leave this week...but she did not call or come over to visit MIL at all.
I am very disappointed about this. She should at least come and bring her out.
If i am her i will...coz she has a car ..
i dun have a car..if i do..i will definitely ask her to go out ..to the mall...have lunch outside...
I guess..SIL doesn't know how to do such thing...
Oh well, is not my position to say anything or judge...

MIL is very down..and not herself today...
so...i went to No frills ..bought the food that she like to eat...
the least i can do..tried to talk to her..but she locked herself in the room...
I know she need time to get everything over..
I know that..is hard...it will take awhile to do that..it took me 10 years to get over my MOM passed!

6 comments:

mama bok said...

You did good Gene..! soon your PILs will realized what a good DIL you are.. ! hang in there..!

Gene Lim said...

MamaboK: I hope so eh...i really do..thanks for ya support :)
How's the x-ray dear?

mama bok said...

Yer most welcome..! as for the xray .. won't know till next week.. i think.. ! keeping my fingers and toes crossed.. :)

Gene Lim said...

MamaboK: NO worries dear..i am sure is like what grammie said.. just some shadow thingy only...so cheer up ya...my prayers are with u daily!

G @ mommibee.com said...

gene, u're an awesome person! i cant get over how big hearted u are! u really take good care of ur PILs!

Gene Lim said...

Grace: Ai yo..don't say like that la...i am just gotta to do what i gotta to do...if i don't do it..i can't get over my conscience...hehehehe :)
U r too kind eh Grace... i am sure if u r in my shoes..u will be doing the same too :)