Tuesday, May 29, 2007

SAHM

After reading Mamabok's entry on stayed at home moms, it reminded me of what i always have to go through with Ryan daily.

Some people (not all, some only, esp. those ego type of man) thought we stayed at home mom or women, got nothing to do..and our jobs are easy..just have to look after the kids and house chores.

Well, I always felt torn apart as in whether I should teach Ryan more stuff, play with him or should I finish my house chores?
I always have this problem and i ended up spending time with Ryan.
The worst part is, I am a neat freak..and i want things get done. If for example, my dishes still on the sink, it will haunt me...and constantly remind me all the time ..that i haven't do my dishes yet.
Ryan is very demanding as in he wants attention all the time..and he is very active.
He wants to go out ride his bicycle..like what Mamabok said about Chloe in her entry.

At times, I felt very overwhelming!

Butttttt hor..i also do salute those working mom! Is not easy for them as well. They have to balance both the working world and home at the same time.

Therefore i just wanna say..is not easy to be WOMEN!
We are made TOUGH!
SO...salute we WOMEN!

4 comments:

Mama BoK said...

Thanks for the mentioned..Gene..! yer a good friend..!! i really appreciate you ..!!

Gene Lim said...

Mamabok: Aweee..your entry made it soo important to mention eh :)
Thank you too! "dai kar kum wa la" :))

G @ mommibee.com said...

ya loh, no joke being a SAHM especially like us overseas, what help also tarak!

Gene Lim said...

Grace: Yea lor...no help eh....wanna hire indonesian maid also cannot...actually cannot afford..kekkekeke